Choose a request to review its document.
For au pairs in the United States
Share your au pair experience.
Meet au pairs by city and dates, chat privately, then plan a trip, a stay or a local activity together.
- Real first and last names required
- Compatible dates and cities
- Hosting without a public address
Hostaupairs helps members meet; payments and final bookings are arranged directly between them.
Member area
Make plans together.
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My public profile
Add information that helps other members get to know you. Keep your exact address private.
Profils bloqués
Un blocage empêche les messages et les demandes entre vous. Tu peux retirer les blocages que tu as activés.
Activities for members
Suggest a plan and meet your community.
For coffee, a walk or a visit, choose a public meeting place and share the moment.
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Create an activity
A simple, local, one-off plan — never a private address.
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Upcoming activities
Join a plan that matches your interests and your city.
Propose a trip
Open trips
Your notifications
Keep track of new requests, replies, activity sign-ups and messages that concern you.
Requests and conversations
Accept only after talking to the other member and checking their identity.
Your conversations
Plan a stay, trip or activity and keep your messages before and after booking in one place.
Espace administration
Hostaupairs administration
Manage sensitive reports and support requests in separate queues.
Administrator access
Au pair reviews
Review the private document, then approve or reject. The file is deleted before the decision is recorded; if still pending, it is purged within 30 days.
Safety · supervisor access
Reports
Only a reported case grants access to its linked thread, in read-only mode.
Choose a report to review its case.
Member profiles
Consulte et recherche les profils de la communauté.
Support · admin access
Support requests
Help tickets are separate from safety reports.
Choose a ticket to review and reply.
Local preview. Sign in to see published listings.
Where to next?
Find stays and activities to share with other au pairs.
Dots show cities. Exact host addresses stay private.
Start with one small step
Get to know each other, then make a plan.
Hostaupairs helps members discover and chat before an activity, trip or stay.
Introduce yourself
Share your city, background and what you would like to do.
Find an idea in common
Join an activity, suggest a meetup or find people to travel with.
Talk before deciding
Chat privately and agree on the details directly with each other.
Real first and last namesMembers must use their real first and last names. The team reviews an au pair programme document; this does not verify civil identity or background history.
Private information stays separateEmail, review result, and safety commitments stay private. The document is deleted after review or within 30 days of submission if still pending.
Safety toolsGuidance, reporting and blocking before meeting.
One community, plenty of ways to enjoy it
Coffee, a weekend away, a helping hand: start with your idea.
Meet members in your city, suggest an activity or plan a stay after chatting privately.
Travel together
Find people free on the same dates and plan a trip that feels right for everyone.
View profilesMeet people nearby
See members’ backgrounds, languages and plans before reaching out.
Discover the communityHost or stay with a member
Offer or request a stay, then talk privately before deciding.
See how it worksDo an activity together
Suggest coffee, a walk or a day out and meet other members in a public place.
View activitiesPlans to share
Have something in mind? Suggest it in your city.
Choose an activity, a public venue and a date; members can join while spots are available.
Post the invite and let the group grow around your idea.
Set a city, public venue, date and group size; people can join while spots remain.
Member profiles
Who would you like to meet?
Member profiles will appear here once published.
Make it yours
A few filters to find people and plans that feel right.
Filter by city, area, gender, age, language, or hosting. Your date of birth, document, email, and exact address stay private.
Profiles are for members only
Sign in to browse profiles published by the community.
The right reflex
Meet people and keep a few good safety habits.
✓Take time to review a profile and chat before making plans.
✓Consider a video call before meeting or staying together.
✓Share your exact address with another member privately, and only after you both agree.
✓Tell someone you trust about your itinerary.
Visible to signed-in members
An active profile may show a declared name, general area, languages, U.S. journey, age range, plans and bio.
Private by default
Your email, review result, and safety commitments stay private. The document is deleted after review or within 30 days of submission if still pending. Hostaupairs does not ask for a passport, visa, Social Security number, or bank details for this review.
For moderation only
Reports, blocks and visibility decisions stay protected in the database and do not appear on profiles.
An introduction, not a guarantee. Hostaupairs helps members take the first step; it does not verify identity or guarantee accommodation. Prefer a public place, video call and tell someone you trust.
Au pair in the U.S.?
Useful answers, with no grey areas.
See who Hostaupairs is for, what other members can see, and how to use its safety tools.
Who is Hostaupairs for and what does it do?
Hostaupairs is a community for au pairs aged 18 or older who live in or are preparing to arrive in the United States. Members can meet other au pairs, share activities and plan trips or stays together. Former au pairs can remain members.
Why must members be 18 or older?
Hostaupairs is for people aged 18 or older. The checkbox records your declaration; it does not verify your age or identity.
How does Hostaupairs review an au pair program?
Hostaupairs reviews a DS-2019 or a letter from a U.S. Department of State-designated sponsor to check your J-1 Au Pair program. This does not verify your civil identity or background. The file is deleted after a decision or, if the request is still pending, no later than 30 days after upload.
Official programme sources: BridgeUSA — Au Pair · DS-2019.
What can other members see on my profile?
Other signed-in members can see your active profile: profile photo if added, declared name, city and state, languages, age range, gender, bio, interests, and hosting details. Your email, date of birth, and uploaded document do not appear there. If you offer hosting, the map shows an approximate point, not your exact address.
What if someone makes me uncomfortable?
From your member account, you can report a profile, conversation, or message and block a profile. Before meeting, choose a public place and tell someone you trust.
Is Hostaupairs free and does it handle bookings?
Hostaupairs is free to use. The site supports requests and conversations, but does not confirm bookings or process payments. Members agree directly on the terms and any costs of their plans; no stay is guaranteed.
What if I cannot find the right profile?
Broaden a filter, change cities or remove an optional criterion. The site does not invent results or promise automatic matches.
Your next step starts here
Your next great memory could start with a message.
Explore profiles, create your space and start a conversation about your next plan.